Shahi Phirni – Long time no see!

No, I was not on sabbatical but it was indeed a long break. I do agree! The invisibility was not intentional, in fact the recipe I am posting was made and clicked long time back but enjoying the resting period in the draft. I don’t know its being busy or sheer laziness to blame or may be both! Either I was busy like a bee or a couch potato doing nothing productive. Ya, I know! 🙂

Now if i think back, in 2017 I balanced my life pretty well with work, family and myself. Wow! It was an achievement that I realized now while clicking my fingers on the keyboard. Yes! without feeling guilty I relaxed whenever get a chance by not worrying about home, chores and cooking. And i learnt you don’t have to be on toes and running around to have a spick and span home and life. Sometimes if cushions are not in place and sink is full of dishes and you have a project to finish… its alright to take a time off, relax your nerves and browse, talk on phone, read or as simple as watch TV.

Taking out time from daily life has become so difficult in this time. We are always running and trying hard to manage more than we can in 24 hours. Super man or woman are not just in stories now, each one of us are trying to be one in daily lives. Without thinking about the consequences, we are running on a fast pace to achieve all goals as soon as possible. We are so busy in working hard for what we wanted that we are not realizing what we a loosing in life.

We are becoming human robot, having same routine and lifestyle. We are so much in our comfort zone now, its getting difficult to think life out of it. The sad part is we are programming our coming generation in the same way. Our sensibilities are so busy we hardly get time to stop and appreciate what we have, what we do or simple our lives. Its not our fault, if we will stop to rest or any reason, we will be left behind. Yes! we are competing from the start until our last….! And if someone wanted to quit the race he will be tagged as quitter, no goals, wasting time or loser.

Who wanted to be a loser in life? Nobody!! So Run, Run fast as you can!
Sometimes I also feel like running along but I can’t cope up with pressure and stress. Its sad but i don’t have the super women syndrome. I wanted to stop and breathe, appreciate, look around and walk…Just walk!
My goals for life keeps on changing keeping in mind needs for my family and what makes me happy and at peace. I like talking to my son about my childhood, my parents and even about my grandmother. This is my way by telling him stories to make him aware of different aspects of life.
What he sees now is a life to compete and get success (financially) to get a good life. We taught are kids to be polite and use sorry and thank you in daily lives. But we are forgetting to tell them the need to feel sorry before saying sorry and saying thank you with a gratitude.
Saying thank you and sorry without looking in eyes, without feeling are just plain words. We are using them everywhere in elevators, cashing counters, stores, offices all around in day to day lives.

I think i will cut down this topic here and get back to the real life. In real life, things are busy, not perfect but life is good. I hope 2018 is good and happy for everyone so far! Its already March. I noticed little bulbs bulging out from the branches today. So, spring is near and i can’t wait for it. Weather was really confused and acting weird this season. But the good part is days are getting longer and brighter.

My recipe for today is not new but royally classic. Phirni is a classic dessert that is made on any festive or special occasion. It is a traditional milk based, creamy rice pudding that tastes best when served chilled in clay pots. After a rich food on any festive occasion, spoonful of chilled, creamy phirni makes the palate and the soul content and blissful.